Your Mediumship Questions and Answers
What is the difference between a Psychic and a Medium?
Will you tell me my future?
Will you tell me anything that is bad?
I want to connect with a specific loved one in the world of spirit, can you do this?
I wanted to speak to my Dad but my Gran came through first why was this?
My loved one in spirit didn't believe in an afterlife, will they still come through?
What kind of things will my loved ones tell me?
I argued with my loved one before they passed, are they still angry with me?
My loved one took their own life; did they make it to the other side ok?
Is my loved one happy?
Was my loved one met by their family members?
I have a question I need to ask
A psychic reads the energy around a person, a place or an object, which is sometimes also called psychometry. A medium is also able to do this, but they are also able to connect to the spirit world and their main aim is to prove life after life.
No – A medium is not a fortune teller, but a bridge between the two worlds; information given is from the spirit world as proof that your loved ones spirit is still alive. Sometimes the spirit world may give a little information about the future but this is not guaranteed.
No – the aim of the reading is for upliftment, encouragement and the sharing of love from the world of spirit. No reading should ever make you feel down or discouraged, if it does then you should stop the reading immediately.
All readings should be regarded as an experiment, as it never guaranteed that a link with the spirit world can be obtained, let alone a specific link. You need to go to a sitting with an open mind and an open heart, no expectations of a particular link, and send out loving thoughts to the world of spirit before your sitting, so that the spirit world are aware of your intentions.
This can depend on a variety of factors and it's mainly due to the energy of the spirit. Sometimes you will find that a Grand-parent who has been in the spirit world for a long time, will come through with a short message and then bring your ‘Dad' through. This may because Dad doesn't know ‘the ropes' yet, or that he has not been in the spirit world for very long, and Gran is helping him to communicate by using her energy as well as his own.
In my experience it doesn't matter whether they believed or not, if they are able to come through then they will. They may even refer to the fact that they didn't believe whilst on the earth plane, but they ‘sure do now', because they are ‘living it'.
Remember - even Angels like to be appreciated
So don't forget to say
Depending on how I receive the spirit communication, spirit may come through with their description, relationship to you, their personality, their job etc. They may also come through with shared memories of things that you have done together, or places that you've both been to. They often will refer to things that have been going on around you recently, this is to prove that they are very much still around and interested in what is going on. They may bring forward names of relatives and friends who are either in the spirit world or still around on the earth plane, they also may give dates of specific events, such as birthdays or anniversaries. It is very rare for a reading to be like a conversation .
No they can see the ‘bigger picture' once they go to the spirit world, and understand why things have been done or said. Everything that we experience in life are valuable lessons to help mould us into the people that we are, and your loved one will have been part of these lessons.
From receiving messages from spirit people in this position, they usually tell me that they are first helped to recover from what has happened to them and to understand where they are. They do make it to the other side ok, but they do need special love and attention and this is given to them to help them understand their transition.
In my experience the messages of love, comfort and joy that are received from the spirit world confirm that the loved one is indeed happy
The spirit people sometimes refer to the fact that they were met by ‘mum or dad' or that Gran was waiting for them. In fact one spirit communicator came through to me and said that when he got their all his family and friends were waiting for him and shouted ‘surprise' to him as if he'd just been given a surprise birthday party!
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